Hello entity,

These are suggestions the platform hosts came up with, but everysome is encouraged to bring in your& own topix.  

They are all formulated aroud the question “how about you&?” Plurals (of any origin) and plural-questioning can participate. We want to hear about your& experiences.  (this is not a how-to or advisory blog)

Everysome is different and we can only shed light on our& stories and hope it generates recognition or at least a wider view of what plurality can look like. HAY& hopes to get multiple contributions on all the topics, from different collectives or from multiple entities in the same system/collectives. All arevery welcome.

The list of suggestions

• spotting other plurals in the wild
• voice differences
• presentation between different entities
• wearing identifying objects or accessories
• taking care of the body/vessel
  • eat vs not eat
  • preferences in diet/specific cravings/food that brainmates dislike
  • who does the medical visits? -self harm that affects others
• finding transitional care / gendercare
• sharing daily responsibilities/jobs/family-life
• relationships with singlets
• monogamy, non-monogamy or polyamory
• individual social spaces for headmates
• what is your (individual) very nich passion/hobby?
• let’s talk SNACKS! (your fav ice cream we want to know it all :D)
• what made you& realise you are plural?
• what is the thing you wish you knew at the early exploration of plurality?
• what is it like living in plural stealth?
• what is it like being out as plural?
• what was your most plural experience?
• how do/did you get your names?
• what does your collective name mean to you?
• experiences with finding mental health support
• loneliness vs togetherness
• inter-system relationships
• being/making friends with brainmates
• how did you& navigate unresolvable issues?
• ever got frontstuck?
• mostly living in headspace VS interacting with the Earth World
• what does your headspace look like?
• the “physics” of headspace
• headspace familiars
• pet theories about how your system is structured
• the morning lottery (who wakes up?)
• ever expanding systems/collectives
• hidden entities or entities that rarely show themselves
• what makes you/you& heppy?
• let’s talk plural ART!  we would love it if anysome wants to share/share about their art/medium.

let’s talk non-human entities:

• how do you relate to the body?
• how do you describe what your lineage is?
• are you otherkin or objectkin or ….kin?

Topix for kiddos :D

• let’s talk plushies
• do you have pets?
• do you have system parents or headspace caretakers?
• what makes you happy?
• anything else would you like to share with the other plurals?